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Thanks for checking out my blog. I will be posting tips on psychic development and spirit communication as well as my thoughts on the subject. And I am very excited to now be adding "Messages From Spirit" to my blog. These are messages that I receive from your loved ones who have crossed over. I will post them monthly so be sure to check back to see if one of them is for you!

Psychic Medium Cyndy

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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Fly like a beagle…

I saw a beagle run the other day… it just took off at lightening speed! I was amazed and impressed. This little spirit so determined and in the moment that it passed people, other animals, cars and more, just so it could get the bird! It got me thinking… What if we could fly like a beagle? What if we could feel that sense of freedom and determination on our life path? Some might say that we could miss out on everything along the way. That’s one way of looking at it. I believe it could make us feel like our passions are so ignited that we move at lightening speed toward our goal. And what if our goal was to be loving, joyous, happy and free? The beagle never caught the bird, but for that moment it had a purpose so important that nothing would stop her. What makes you fly like a beagle?

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Some call it laziness.. I call it living life to the fullest!

It seems that we have a hard time letting ourselves pause. Do we have to be busy 24/7 to feel good about ourselves? Do we always have to have a goal to achieve? I am on my way to the beach and I plan on being what some may call “lazy”. The only plan I have is to have no plan although sleeping on the beach sounds really awesome! Ten days of “nothingness”. I suppose it can look like I am not really accomplishing anything but the way I see it is … that in these times of “nothingness” I can hear my spirit loud and clear. For me, in this state of just “being” I can accomplish far more than I ever could “doing”. How about giving yourself a break today? Your spirit will sing with joy!

Messages from Spirit 9 20 2010

To Mary: I am so grateful for you in my life. I love you dearly and I am so sorry that you had to see me leave the way that I did. I just couldn’t seem to find happiness again after carl died. You did everything that you could and please don’t blame your self. Remember the ring with the white gold and onyx. It is very important to me.

From Jane. I want to talk to my sister. We had such a close relationship and I know how hard my passing is for you. I am here with mom and we are still baking all those great desserts… don’t worry about your sweet tooth… thanks for saving our recipes. It’s important that you move on… and be happy.

From Joe: I am a catholic priest and would like to speak with my fellow brothers in the seminary. We were very close and I am still with you. Please remember to check the back door each night. I always seemed to forget to and it is important in the neighborhood you are in.

To Alison: My greatest joy was knowing you. I wanted us to have a long time together but it wasn’t meant to be. Take care of the little one. You are a great mom and try not to worry about his illness. He will pull trough. I will be there with you.

From Lorraine:I loved all the laughter I had with my brothers, all 6 of them. Please tell my daughter that I am just having a good time over here. I don’t feel eighty two anymore! No more aches and pains. Tell Ron it’s ok to start that new job… and give the grandkids a kiss for me.

To Darlene: It is really awesome over here. I can’t tell you how much it meant to me when we were young and you used to hang out with me when no one else would. I left way too young but I am fine. Do you remember in math class when we would always get in trouble for writing to each other and not paying attention?. Oh well.. I still don’t like math.. Take care of your self and your time to shine is on the way.

From Bobby: I want my brother to have the blue corvette. He always admired it and I want him to have it. There is some dispute over it… but it is for you. Also, I want my mom to know that all that suffering is over now. I don’t feel anything but perfect health. I appreciate how you relocated for the last two months to be with me. Keep my Joe Cocker records… ( he gave me a big simile when he said that!)

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

What you focus on expands

Many of my clients are suffering with their financial situation, whether it be a job loss, pay cut or extraordinary bills. They are wanting me to psychically connect with their higher self to help them see how and when they will attract more money into their life. Before I even do the reading, the one thing that I remind all of them is “What you focus on expands”… I understand how hard it is when you are in the middle of a financial crunch and not sure where your next paycheck is going to come from. It is when you feel this desperate that you must meditate and connect with your higher consciousness so that you find the faith to know that you are already being taken care of. If you keep going over in your mind the lack of funds you are experiencing you are shutting off the universal supply. The more you focus on something the larger it gets! So focus on the BIG picture… you being financially secure, happy and free… then let the universe do the rest.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Spirit Messages August 25th 2010

To Paul: I want to talk to my brother. I wish we were able to go in the lake with you again.. I am with you and I am so glad that you started to get back to it. Check out the boat though. It was too long. Tell mom that I love her and she is really singing well.

From Cathy:. I am waiting for my grandson to arrive on earth. I will be at the birth. He is going to be named Anthony. I would like to offer my guidance. Please give him the the clothes I made his dad. I miss you all and love you.

From Jeff or Jeffrey depending on who he is talking too! Hey I am rockin hard over hear. ( I can see him with a dark purple shiny guitar). He says he is sorry to his mom for playing the music so loud, but he just loved it. For the guys in the band, I am still with you on stage and the new guy is working out fine for you.. sounds great.

To my daughter Kali: I am over here still working on helping people. I lost my way and got depressed while I was still on earth. I am sorry for worrying you so much. After your dad passed I lost hope. We are together now and watching over you. I love you very much.

To Dave: Its Rich here. Too much skiing and not enough buckling down. I am sorry for leaving you in such a flash. We always took each other for granted. I am with you always. Take care of the little one..

From Jennifer: I am wanting to connect with my daughter. We were on our way to the mountains for a weekend off and I never made it there to meet her. Tell her I didn’t feel anything and I am really sorry that we didn’t get that time together. ( I am hearing the song “You Light Up My Life”.) She wants to say Happy Birthday to you.. She loves you and will always be with you.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Messages From Spirit August 10 2010

Hi Everyone,
Here are my messages from spirit for this month. Feel free to comment if they belong to you! Have a great day!

From Corinne. I want to speak with my husband and daughter. I appreciate everything you did for me before I passed. She is showing m breast cancer that spread to her lungs. She wants to tell her husband that she really loved him despite the fact that their marriage was arranged. She also wants you to know that she loved the way you looked in your uniform going to work everyday. Tell my daughter to watch out for my husband. He is very depressed. She loves you both and will be with you always.


From charlie, tall guy red hair and freckles. I am so happy to be here. No one makes fun of me anymore. I am actually fit right it. I am so sorry for leaving the way that I did. I was very despondent there and I didn’t know how to tell anyone. Thanks for honoring me at the club. I really appreciated it. Tell my lil sister that I love her and I am taking care of Red our dog.

To lori: I want you to know that I really appreciated all that you did for me. I loved our talks at work and how we just cracked up. We laughed a lot… just at a time when I needed to. I can still see that you are frustrated with the way the boss runs things but hang in there. They don’t know how to say they appreciate you but they really do. The truck is still running… that’s good… I know how you love it… You always wanted one and I am glad you have it. (She is showing me sunburn and said that she appreciates you making her stay out of the heat when she need to.) She loves you and is always with you.

From Dave. Hi.. I want to let my mom now that I am doing great. I still love to swim and I knew that I was going to leave that way. It was an accident and please try not to hold on to anger at the school anymore. It was not their fault. I am happy and well and love you.

From Justin… I want to tell my brother that he can and will get on that team in (state or town that starts with an A) He wants to go to college and will get the scholarship. I am sorry for leaving you the way that I did but the disease was just too much for me. (I am getting he died of lymphoma or a blood disease.) Take care of dad.. he is too angry and needs your attention.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Take Center Stage!

Did you know that you are highly creative? And most important, did you know that your creativity can inspire and motivate people? You really can make a difference in world. It’s easy to do. First you have to put yourself on center stage! Let your light shine bright exactly where you are, in this day, in this moment. Know that you are a child of the universe with endless talents and ideas. Put them to use right now in your life. Acknowledge and honor them in yourself. Give yourself an applause and then walk into the world with this incredible energy and power. It will be infectious to those around you. Namaste.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Hope... A Blessing or a Thirst?

Hope is an interesting word. If we live constantly hoping we can become frustrated, restless and exhausted because we will always be unhappy with the way things are in the moment. We’ll always be reaching for something we don’t have. We will be unsatisfied because we can't seem to quench our thirst for joy and love. Yet when we receive hope as a gift from someone else it can do extraordinary things in our life. It can help us see the light at the end of the tunnel. It can restore our faith. It can help us to trust in the universe once again to fulfill our needs and bring us joy. So...I believe if you want your moments to be filled with hope, then give it away with love, receive it with gratitude and live in the light of it every day.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Be Your Own Pillar of Strength!

How strong is your foundation? Have you been told that you will never be able to stand on your own, accomplish the things you dream of, be successful at your chosen passions? These are things we all struggle with when we look outside for our strength and we don’t build a solid foundation of self love and self acceptance. Try today to see yourself in the exact place you want to be, happy, joyous and free. And remember, whenever anyone tells you that you will “never” be able to do something you desire, it is only their lack of trust in themselves and their own foundation. Send them white light… they really need it and remember to surround yourself with it as well.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Messages From Spirit 7 8 2010

From George… I want to let my son know that I am ok. I had a work related accident. I want to tell him I love him and to make sure that he is listening to his mom. He has been acting out lately, skipping school etc and hooking up with the wrong crowd. Tell him I am watching and making sure he is safe. I love him very much

From Darragh.. She is an older woman and she wants to tell her daughter that she is doing great. She is still cooking up a storm and she is showing me an apron. One that everyone used to kid her about because it was so worn out she wouldn’t get rid of it.

From Walter… He is a very short older man passes with a heart attack. He is saying that he had a good life although he didn’t socialize much. But he wants to let his neighbor know that he appreciates that he has his pet now. He is glad that he has a good home. Tell… … I am getting the letter s… Shirley? that I said hello

From Tom… Hi mom and sis… I am here with grandpa, we are still fishing.. He is showing me a boat.. very small that he used to go fishing in with his grandfather. He says its time to get rid of the boat … He is showing me a book.. an old classic novel.. that was one of his moms favorites… could be Charles dickens or from that time… He used to love to listen to his mom read aloud at the holidays. He loves you all very much.

For Katie… Hi.. its your dad.. I am just wanting you to know how much I appreciate you and all that you did for me. It was the right thing to do not to move closer to me in my final days… stop feeling so much guilt over it. I know that you are not married and it looked easier for you to come and take care of me.. but you would have upset your life too much. Tell your sister to forgive you… you did the right thing. I love you and I am always with you.

From Jim… He is with an older man connected to the letter M. He wants to let his wife know that he is really happy now. He is free of all that pain in his spine and his legs.. He wants to send you a red rose for your birthday. He is showing me that his disease was chronic and degenerative. You did all you could for him. He still remembers your first kiss under the moonlight at the park.. thanks for being with me for so many years… I am waiting for you…

For Dan: I have Wendy here and she wanted me to say hi to you.. Sorry she left so abruptly.. she was looking forward to your date… Tell her brother that she loves him and misses him…

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Hide and Go Peek

It is so easy to hide.. from our own passions, the people that mean the most to us in our life and our community. We create our own little space and we stay in there. After all, it is a safe place to be… But.. it is also limiting. There is a whole world waiting for us in every person we meet, in every place we go, in every thing we see. All we have to do is take a peek. A quick look outside of our comfort zone and test the waters. You’ll be surprised at the hospitality of the universe. And besides, you can always head back to your safe place whenever you feel you need to. Have a welcoming day....

Monday, June 28, 2010

Is it time to Move On?

I have been giving serious thought this past week to what serves me in my life and what doesn’t. It’s amazing how much time I spend trying to work things out in many different areas of my life. What I am realizing is that maybe I am not supposed to try and work things out or fix them to my liking. If it takes too much effort I take that as a sign from the Universe that it is not on the path for my highest good. I am better off moving on. Is there something in your life that you are holding to too tightly? Something you are trying to fix but no matter what you try, you just can’t seem to? Where can you move on?

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Messages From Spirit June 22, 2010

For Joan: This is your mom here. She is Jewish and holdng out food in her hands. She said she wishes your would eat more… you never liked to eat especially when you were a kid. She passed with a heart attack and I am feeling like she had this heart problem for quite some time. She sends you her love and wants you to know that she is watching over you. Try to get along better with your father. He is a bit stubborn but he loves you very much.

From David: I want to send love to my sister. She is a great person and I appreciated all that she did for me. I am thanking her for helping me with my wheel chair and keeping a close eye on me in school. I know this whole thing was hard on you. You gave up a good portion of your teenage years taking care of me. And you didn’t have to. I love you for that. But know that I am really happy now, no wheelchair and it is your time! You need to shine now and I will be watching you and cheering you on. Maybe nursing isn’t really your passion?. Think about it.

From R… Rod … Rog?? He is short, medium build… kind of stocky. He is bald on the top of his heard. Smiling.. nice guy. He wants to let his wife know that he never meant to leave so abruptly. He said that he worked at that place for years and never had any problems… it was just an accident. Try not to keep holding on to the events of my death. It is eating away at you. Remember how we used to go to Shiller? Shilling? Street and take that walk? Go do it again. I know it is a drive buy it will make you feel better. I love you very much.

For Dorothy: I am here and doing just fine. You were my wife and I wasn’t honest with you. I was depressed for a long time and I didn’t say anything. I didn’t plan to take my life the way that I did. It was a last minute decision and I regret it. But you are doing great now. I am so happy for you. Keep dancing.. and know that I am with you always. And I love you very much. I am so proud of all the courage that you have.

From Tom: He is about eleven years old. He ran to me and took my hand and was leading me to a school playground area. His is wearing a blue shirt with a necktie. He is a very polite and well mannered boy. He is showing me a group of boys on the school ground and they are fighting.. one of them has a gun or knife?? and Tom got in the way. It was a shock to everyone because the school never had anything like this happen before. He misses you mom and dad.. and he is always around you. Give his little sis a kiss for him.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Are you claiming your joy today?

In this economic climate and the condition of our planet, you might be wondering how I can ask a question like this? It can be hard these days to find joy, so we have to make an extra effort to look for it. It is easiest for me to find it in the smallest details. I feel joy when I, see the way the sun hits the roses on my front lawn, see the way my dog cuddles with her snoopy stuffed animal, smell the gumbo that my partner so carefully crafts... the list can go on and on. When I look at the details of my life I find joy in abundance and it takes no effort whatsoever for me to feel the happiness that is my birthright. Take a moment today to notice the tiniest details of your life.. You know what they say about what comes in small packages… Have a joyous day...

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Messages From Spirit June 15, 2010

From Sarah: I want to talk to my daughter Kelly. Tell her I am doing fine and it is amazing here. No more pain! And they don’t make fun of my shoes here… by the way you can throw those old things out! Plenty of laughs around them. Tell the rest of the family especially Tom that I am watching out for him. Look for the green car … It’s the right one.

From Rob. Tall thin guy with dark hair. I just recently crossed over and I wanted to let my parents know that I am fine. I didn’t feel a thing. The car just hit me really fast and I didn’t even know hat was coming. The paper they are looking for is in my jean jacket pocket. I love you both and I am only a moment away.

From Rose. I am wanting to let the people know at hospice that I really appreciated everything they did. They took a huge burden off of my daughter during the last month I was on earth. Bless everyone and I will see them all again someday.

To Jenny: This is Ham? Hams?. I wanted to let you know that I am sorry that I never said the things that you needed to hear. I made you feel overlooked and unappreciated. I loved you very much. Try and remember some of the joy we had together when you were very small. I am also sorry that I didn’t leave you anything. Ask your mother about my pin. I want you to have it. The one with my initial on it. I love you very much.

From Michael: He is very tall and thin, blonde and smiling a lot. He wants to tell his friends that he had the best times with them out at the lake. There was nothing anyone could have done for him. He had a blood disease and was ready to leave. He wants Pete, (or someone with the letter P) to know that he always carried his photo on him. He loved him and didn’t know how to tell him. Tell my mom I am doing fine and I am not skinny anymore.

To Drew: I have a male figure here and he is telling me that you have the gifts from him. This feels like a grandfather on your Dads side. He is really talented man in the music field. He is happy that you still have the sheet music that he used to use from the 1930’s. You even play his favorite song. A remake of a classic song. He likes the arrangement. He loves listening to it. I love you very much and I am watching over you all the time…

From Melanie: Please tell my husband that I am no longer suffering. He spent way too many nights reading to me by my bedside and I appreciated it. Tell him that I loved the Jane Ayre book the best. He will understand. He can get rid of all my books now. No need to keep them. He will always be in my heart. I am doing fine and I am with him always.

From David. David is very young.. eight years old or so. He is with his sister. I am getting that they both passed in a car accident. One of them died instantly and the other lingered on for a day or so in a coma. They are very beautiful.. both blonde or dirty blonde hair and very playful.. They are close in age not more than a year apart. Please tell my mom we are fine and happy and waiting for her to get here when it is her time. David says he got another fire truck now just like the one he had at home. The little girl is holding a doll, looks hand made and she never lets it go.

Is Your Sacral Chakra Out to Lunch??

When we use our creativity we bring life to every situation or task. Since the universe is ever expanding and since we are one with it, then it makes sense to me that we can’t help but be creative and that the universe DEPENDS on us to be creative. If you find yourself feeling bored, stuck, frustrated, unmotivated etc, you can try being creative in your approach to your daily routines. How can you infuse your day with adventure? What little thing can you do differently? How can you express yourself in a new way? Go for it… have a unique day!

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Sacrifice? Karmic Debt? Life Lesson?

Have you been feeling like you keep giving and giving and giving? Are you feeling like you aren't getting enough in return? When I have these kind of days I write a gratitude list. I write down everything that I am thankful for no matter how small it may seem. By the time I am done it is clear to me how much the universe gives back to me in every area of my life. So if it feels like you are sacrificing, paying a tough Karmic Debt or learning a challenging life lesson, try counting your blessings... they are many... and they are divine gifts that you deserve.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Messages From Spirit June 8 2010

Hi Everyone,
Here are the Messages From Spirit for this week. Feel free to let me know if you resonate with any of them. Blessings....Cyndy

From Belinda: I am sorry that I left Mom, but I want you to know that I was prepared. I was not afraid and I understand that you couldn’t be with me. It was impossible for you to juggle everything at the time. Don’t worry. I am fine and I love you very much. Take care of your heart. Also, it is time to let go of my clothing but keep the blue shirt!

To George: This is your mom. I miss you and our talks together. Be sure to get your car fixed. I was there the other day when it broke down. It is not fixed properly. Your Aunt says hello as well. We love you and are always with you.

From Brian: I want to let my sister know that I love her very much. We are still as close as we ever were. I am with you all the time, even when you are at school. I am very proud of the work you are doing in grad school. Hang in there… you were always the one with the brains. I love you very much.

From Loretta: Please tell my mom that I am fine. I left abruptly. The accident was not my fault and I am so sorry that it happened . We never got a chance to say goodbye. I don’t want you to keep feeling guilty because I was on my way to see you. There are no real accidents. I was ready to leave. Thank Uncle Carl for me for trying really hard to get me that job I wanted. I will see you both when you get here… I am only a moment away.

From Suzanne: I want my children to know that I am fine. They grew up so fast. Let them know that I see the grandchildren and they are wonderful. The little girl is going to want to play the piano soon. Let her. It is her destiny. You can move on now and know that I am fine. I love you very much

To Harry: This is your wife. I am hearing the song by the supremes “Baby Love”. Somehow this song is significant for your both. You must not feel guilty about moving on. You deserve to be happy. We will always be together. Let yourself enjoy life again. By the way, I really like Anna.

From Gail: I am so sorry that I didn’t get to finish what I started. I want my brother to know that we could have never been able to be in business together. We would have butted heads and it wouldn’t have been good for our relationship. Don’t be afraid to strike out on your own. Don’t let mom and dad hold you back. You love the automotive industry and your ideas are great. I’ll be watching out for you. Love you

From Georgette: I have a small child here no more than 8 years old. She has very long hair and is very sweet. She wants me to tell her mommy that she is having so much fun with with her dog. She is handing me a daisy and saying that she really appreciates all the flowers you bring her when you visit. She wishes that grandma wouldn’t cry so much because she is really fine. She is dressed in a pretty long dress and is running barefoot. She is laughing because she says that mom wouldn’t let her do that.

From Bill: Just let my wife know that the cigars aren’t hurting me here. He is laughing as he is saying this! Funny guy. Tell her I love her very much my dear one. I wish my job didn’t keep me away from home so much. Know that I didn’t feel any pain from the heart attack. I didn’t even realize what happened and I am ok. I am waiting for you… enjoy your life

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

What's in it for me?

I often get asked "Why do you do this? What's in it for you?" I can't even begin to describe the satisfaction I get by connecting you to your loved ones that have passed over. To witness the level of healing it provides to those of you who are grieving makes me feel like I have accomplished what I set out to do when I incarnated this time around. I have always been a psychic intuitive but it wasn't until my brother made his transition that I felt the need to connect directly to the realm where he now exists. I am very grateful to have this ability and blessed that you trust in me to connect you to those that have passed on. So ... there is a lot in it for me... and thanks to you... I get to do what I love. Til next time...

Monday, February 1, 2010

Is everyone psychic?

YES! Everyone is psychic. You know those gut feelings you get or hunches? Sometimes you know when the phone is going to ring or you think of someone and they call you. These are not just coincidences. You are just tapping into a part of the brain that we don't normally use. Pay close attention to them... If you really want to observe psychic abilities watch your pets. Pets are very in touch with the higher realms and can teach us so much. Til next time...

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

What is a Medium?

I find it interesting that whenever I walk into a room lately people say to me.. "There's the woman who talks to dead people!" The truth is they are not "dead" at all. They are just living at a different vibration. I connect to loved ones who have crossed over and do my best to interpret the messages I get. That is the job of a Medium. I can't always connect with the spirits you want me to, but you can trust that whoever does come through, has an important message for you.